If it has my deepest apologizes. I think that this saying needs to be thrown out of the window and never used again. As I am sure many of you are aware cherry popping refers to a woman losing her virginity. The cherry popping revolves around the breaking of the hymen. The fact that girls have in their minds that first time sex or penetration has to result in pain and bleeding infuriates me. People really think that it is a right of passage and that is ridiculous.
The first time a woman is vaginally penetrated does not have to be that way at all. It surely was not the case for me. If a woman is aroused, has had ample clitoris stimulation, and there is lots of lubrication then there should not be any problems. I figured this out early on in life through masturbation. Sadly so many women have yet to do so. I can’t count the stories I have heard of women saying how painful the first time they had sex was.